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She
strode in purposefully, her entourage in
tow, wearing a Harley Davison baby tee underneath
a casual jacket coupled with a pair of fitted
Levis. Understated and yet glamorous – it
takes someone with great charisma to make
something so casual appear oh, so sophisticated.
That someone is none other than Malaysia’s
darling of the acting world, Erra Fazira.
Beautiful in a stunning and commanding manner,
you can’t help but feel drawn towards the
beauty icon. No stranger to the Malaysian
entertainment scene, the 33-yearold carries
a few titles to her name: Miss Malaysia/World
1992, actress, singer, entrepreneur and
model.
Now, Erra has added yet another feather
to her cap – Wife. Just last October, Erra
wed Engku Emran Engku Zainal Abidin in an
intimate and tender affair witnessed by
family and friends. Their courtship had
been brief – the couple only knew each other
for slightly over three months before deciding
to tie the knot. And like any other celebrity
couple, their love affair was the highlight
of the Malaysian media, especially when
a rumour concerning a love triangle surfaced
amidst their relationship.
However, only one thing matters now – the
future that awaits the two. With the said
publicity now behind the newlyweds, it is
time for Erra to move on to a new chapter
in her life. This is not the first time
she’s tied the knot – Erra was previously
married to KRU’s Yusry for three years before
they divorced in 2006. The experience had
made Erra anything but the wide-eyed bride
she once was. Finding the courage to love
again just one year from her divorce is
definitely brave and the once-again blushing
bride has certainly learnt a lesson or two
from this thing called love. “Love to me
is now looking at a lot of other more practical
factors and not just solely focusing on
the romance,” she says.
Congratulations
on your marriage. How has married life been
treating you so far?
Erra Fazira:It
has been good but I am definitely dealing
with some drastic changes. My husband’s
working hours are from nine to five while
mine’s uncertain. My first marriage was
with someone from the industry so that wasn’t
an issue then.
This
being your second marriage, how are you
approaching it differently?
Erra Fazira:
I feel I can right the wrongs I have done
in my previous marriage. Back then, I had
a very naďve perception; I thought marriage
was going to be rosy and beautiful all the
time. I realise now even roses have thorns.
So, I feel I am more ready this time because
I am in the right frame of mind..
From
your experience then and now, what have
you learnt about marriage?
Erra Fazira:Marriage
involves responsibility; a lot of give and
take. It also takes a lot of sacrifice to
make things work between a couple. In my
first marriage, I tried to do a balancing
act between the two but failed. This time
round, I am giving my marriage top priority
and career takes second place.
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You don’t
seem to have any illusions about love. So
what is your take on love and marriage now?
Erra Fazira:It
is about whether you can get along with
your life partner and his family. It is
also important that his family accepts my
career. My perception of love and marriage
is more grounded because I now have more
practical expectations.
Was it hard
to find the courage to love again?
Erra Fazira:Well,
I have never stopped looking for happiness
but I didn’t go looking for love either. It
happened naturally so I could say love found
me instead.
Have
you ever thought you would get married again
this soon?
Erra Fazira:Absolutely
not. I even told my husband that I wasn’t
expecting to get married so soon. This relationship
is a first for me of its kind. It is weird
for me to actually decide to be with Emran
in such a short time. It normally takes
me two years to get to know someone in order
to be sure it is really love. I have only
been seeing my husband for a few months!
But it is really different with my Emran
because of the way he approached me.
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