Is his member keeping you from being deliriously happy between the sheets but you're not sure if it's normal? Fret not, cos here are the answers you were looking for!
PROBLEM: Erm, his semen smells yucky
A chlorine-like smell is considered the norm; anything different and should look at his diet.
Warning: foul-smelling semen may indicate a STI or prostate problem. Get tested asap.
SOLUTION: Sneak more fruits and veggies into his meals
They're said to make semen more pleasant. Is he circumcised? If not, sweat as well as skin cells and oils can cause an accumulation of bacteria, hence the off-putting smell around the genital area. You definitely shouldn't go "eww!" the moment he whips out his hammerhead; we suggest you get to the steamy sesh after jumping into the shower with him and when you're both clean. Casually remark how good he smells after a good scrub. If there's ever a time to pretend you're an actress, it is now.
PROBLEM: Too fast on the draw
More common across the age groups than erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE) occurs when he has an orgasm within minutes of sexual stimulation. This can happen pre- or during penetration, way ebefore you're ready to scream out his name — bummer!
SOLUTION: Take a chill pill!
According to KPJ Tawakkal Specialist Hospital, excitement, penis sensitivity and anxiety or fear can affect the timing of an orgasm, so give sex a rest for a few days. This is feasible for you, yes? Play his masseuse for a week; with his anxiety reduced, he may just give you mnd-blowing orgasms! If the problem refuses to go away, get him to see a sexual specialist for in-depth lessons on 'start-stop' or 'squeeze' techniques.
PROBLEM: Why is it curvy?
When it comes to genitals (both of the male and female types), there are many different sizes and shapes. While an erect penis with a degree of curvature may completely freak you out, it is absolutely normal.
SOLUTION: Get creative in bed
Dr Debby Herbenick, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institure, says curves can be fun, especially when used to stimulate the front wall of the vagina — you may know it as the G spot! But when sex is near impossible, he needs to check if he has Peyronie's disease, whereby plaque build-up deforms the penis, making erections painful. Talk to a urologist about non-surgical and surgical treatments available.
PROBLEM: It won't get up
Before you start clutching your head in horror and screaming "OH NO, he has ED!", keep calm: he could be a) nervous (hello, your naked bod is hot!) b)exhausted c)wasted d)uninterested. His meds (if he's taking any) could also be wreaking havoc on his sexual performance.
SOLUTION: Back off
Nonchalantly say, "It happens. Let's make out instead!" But keep tabs on his non-erections; if a flaccid penis has been attending the party (if you could call it that) for more than 50 per cent of the time, it's a problem. He should see a doctor to determine if it's indeed ED; if it is and you're in a marriage or committed relationship, keep the lines of communication open as you work through the situation together. Oh, and keep the hugs and kisses coming! If you're in a casual relationship, you aren't obliged to stay but do offer him your support.
Psst... ED may be a symptom of heart disease, hypertension, diabetes and depression.
If you love both Topshop and adidas Originals, then be prepared to squeal in excitement! After major success from their first collab last year, the two crowd faves are back with a second teamed-up effort.
The Topshop x adidas Originals SS15 collection will feature seven pieces of selected iconic adidas Originals pieces 'reengineered' with a Topshop touch. The result: a beautiful mesh of fashion and sportswear as essential staples.
The 'lucky few' chosen from the adidas Originals classics for the exclusive capsule includes the SUPERSTAR jacket — now reinstated with a soft, cream perforated leather paneling for a more luxe, feminine look — and the SUPERSTAR shoe — now with an updated clear sole and a metallic cracked leather shell-toe.
Check out the collection for yourself when it launches globally on 30 April 2015 or scroll through the gallery below for the first peek!
Topshop Malaysia stores: Suria KLCC, Pavilion KL, Mid Valley Megamall, Sunway Pyramid, Gurney Plaza